Saturday, January 6, 2007

Shane and Simone Warne

For those who don't know Shane Warne, he is one of Australia's top cricket player. He has been caught on numerous occasions having affairs with many women, which was one of the reasons why simone left him. They are separated but still live together (??) so that it wouldn't affect the 2 beautiful kids. Now, there's talks that they are back together. Some would call her stupid for letting him hurt and embarass her time and time again.

I feel that when a marriage breaks down and there's kids involved, there are so many decisions to make. Do you walk away because you believe you should and you deserve another chance at happiness or should you stay in an unhappy marriage for the kids. She has given him numerous chances but he has failed her time and time again. There must be a lot of women out there faced with this question.

Divorce is such a common thing these days and you never know if a relationship is going to last forever. I have to say that people do get married for the wrong reason as well. However, I feel that people don't seem to put in any effort to maintain the relationship after marriage. It must be worst when you start having kids. There's no longer time to go out for a nice quiet meal together, take a stroll at the park or just lie in each other's arms. At the end of the day, the most important thing I guess is not to take each other for granted. One shouldn't assume that their partners will be there for them no matter what you do.

Everyone loves to be pampered and pampering doesn't mean buying a huge diamond ring or bringing them shopping. Pampering can be simple, eg watching the sunset, stroll at the beach, lie on the grass at the park reading together etc etc.


So well, to everyone out there, hopefully we'll all treasure what we have. :)

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